The Bossable Story.

The online community every woman creating financial, location & time freedom wants and needs to be part of.

Suicide rates, depression, mental disorders and general unfulfillment in life has increased over time and this is particularly an issue among Gen Z’s and Millennials.

At Boss My Life we’ve helped women just like you create truly beautiful lives & businesses for themselves through high-value programs, accountability & our community of insanely supportive and driven women.

I had two options, wait for someone to save me or save myself. I chose the latter. Now you are presented with two options. Wait around and keep going the way you are or join an incredible community of women waiting to support you through your self-development journey.

BECOME A BOSSABLE ⟶

The Bossable Mindset

we believe every woman already has everything they need inside their mind — and if they don’t they can learn it

Hi I’m Mia!

foUNDER & ceo

Mia Gill is the Founder and CEO of Boss My Life. Also known as “The Gen-Z Coach”, Mia uses her Neuro-Linguistic Practitioner and Emotional Intelligence coaching certifications to empower young minds to look inwards so as to create a truly beautiful life outwards.

Mia has been invited to speak on the importance of healing inner-child wounds and how learning our personal brain psychology can help us achieve personal success and deep-fulfilment quicker.

You can find this balanced boss in her sweatpants and slippers doing a full-on beauty routine (face pack, body-oil, hair mask, nail polish – the works) whilst cooking up a storm in the kitchen.

“And suddenly — the dreams started chasing me.”

get to know me

dream PLACE TO VISIT

Maldives & Bali

favorite tv show to binge

Suits & Friends

MY birth chart

☉ Aquarius, ☾ Sagittarius, ↑ Aries

SECRET TALENT

Cooking & The Bachata Dance

I’D SPEND my whole paycheck on

Investing back into my businesses

COFFEE order

Oat Chai Latte – extra hot please!

MY HAPPY PLACE

Anywhere my loved ones are

pet peeve

People who continuously cross my boundaries

forever ON REPEAT

M’ke Harru by Mars

CURRENTLY READING

The 4 Hour Work Week by Tim Ferris (again)

i’ve been there gurl!

Struggling to find peace?

So apparently I was quite a smart kid hence I was put on the ‘gifted and talented’ list at school – do I put this on my CV? I was bumped up a year where every Monday for half a day, I would hang out with the older kids and do harder math homework.

I was your typical happy go lucky, jolly kid, who loved animals, singing to the top of her lungs, messing around with her parents, jumping in puddles, reading and laughing more than life. It seemed like I had a bright future ahead of me.

until I wasn’t…

Years and years of experiences had creeped up on me. I was now this 15 year old with a lack of self-identity. I was focused more on seeking validation than I was my academics.

My academics wasn’t the only thing to fall short, I was anxious, depressed and had no idea how to form healthy relationships. I couldn’t spend more than a minute by myself without feeling panicked.

In the years to come I was so busy trying to find myself that everything else around me came tumbling down. All at the tender age of 17.

Growing up in a south asian household meant mental health simply didn’t exist making me feel alone and helpless. So there I was even more confused and even more unhappy as the years went on.

“Fast forward to this day and age, mental health, the need for emotional intelligence and the need to manage our mind is becoming extremely normalised. In fact it’s everywhere on social media, yet surprisingly it’s not as accessible. You have to consume a bucket load of content, unwrap it, take out all the faff and then create your own action plan to apply to your life”

My Journey…

“I was anxious & depressed, with no self identity… Now I wake up at peace with who I am, my life & where I am headed“

01. i had enough of myself

As blunt as it sounds is as blunt as it was! I was in a victim mindset and self-sabotaged everything around me. I simply told myself “right Mia heal yourself, find yourself, apply yourself to something fully – what if it turns out better than you could have ever expected?”

I started from the beginning. I learnt to love myself one day at a time, I slowly got over my fears, I challenged myself to understand why I had particular thought patterns and why I acted in a certain way and so much more…

I knew if I wanted a beautiful life, filled with beautiful souls whilst being beautiful inside and out I needed to create a beautiful mind first – if you couldn’t tell already I love the word beautiful!

02. I tried to “find myself”

Around the age 20 I set off on a mental journey of “finding myself” though I had no clue where to start. I had no knowledge of the fancy psychology words we use today, I had no idea what healing from inner child wounds were and to top it all off I thought I was the only one going through what I was.

03. i studied my personal psychology

I researched psychology, self-therapy techniques, changing behaviour patterns, mindfully dealing with stress, coping with mental disorders, effectively moving on from traumas, where our reactions stem from, how to change a mindset and much much more. It quickly became apparent that self-awareness was a key component tying all the above together and as soon as I reached a higher level of self-awareness, everything started to fall into place.

04. I CREATED A BEAUTIFUL LIFE FOR MYSELF

I honestly created a truly beautiful life for myself by myself, and I wanted to create a place where women could go to focus on their healing, happiness and high performance MINUS THE OVERWHELM. Because especially as a 20 something-year-old woman in this generation the simple things are hard enough. And just like that, the Bossable University was born.