You Need To Stop Taking This High Performance Advice
You Need To Stop Taking This High Performance Advice
Every woman in the process of building her dream life has made mistakes along the way and has a long list of things they wish they did differently. For me it was telling myself that I needed confidence to build my empire. I limited myself in so many ways because I had convinced myself, confidence was the secret sauce I was missing to actually take action. Well that turned to be a whole load of s***. So if there is one thing to take away from this bossable blog, it would be to take action, then worry about finding your confidence as 99% of the time your confidence comes to you automatically when you see just how capable you really are. Don’t be afraid to shock yourself once every while.
worrying about others won’t help your confidence
A lot of being a solopreneur is learning about new things all the time and even learning about yourself in the process. You start to realise just how capable you are over time. This doesn’t come quick though but it does come I promise because you start to blow your own dam mind once in a while. Thinking damn did I do that. In fact, There was one night I remember vividly. I cried myself to sleep on that night thinking I was never going to be able to do this. I am never going to run my own business, make 10k months and be able to live a life that I have created and not settled for, then one month later I took a step. back and I was like damn. I created this. I think this is more than possible now. I don’t think there is ever any entreprenuer, soloprenurer, CEO, leader or career woman who has been 100% from the get go. It’s just not a thing. The confidence is earned over time. You find it in the work you do and the things you do daily. That’s why when my clients say they can’t take action because they have low confidence, I always push them to take that action anyway as I know they will find that confidence in that action. I remember being in the middle of it and I thought no way. I’m so bad at this, but I kept going. And now I have reached a stage where I am not only building websites for myself but for other people to including one of my closest friends. I wouldn’t be able to do that if I didn’t step out of my comfort zone.
take action first, worry second.
I have spent so much time, worrying about other people and putting in too much time, effort and even finance into other people, pushing my goals aside to make room for them. I followed tik toks advice and disappeared for 6 months, I went to war against the woman in the mirror and albeit, i haven’t won yet but I am standing in front of you as a woman who has built the business of her dreams, healed her inner child wounds and am getting one step closer to building wealth, stability and fulfilment EVERY SINGLE DAY. And I know you can too. I owe all this to just one roadmap.
Firstly I focused on my fulfilment. I knew that if I was unhealed, triggered and uninspired for years to come I wouldn’t have that life I dreamt of. I had come to terms that the idea I had in my head of what would be my perfect life wasn’t going to just come and fall on my lap. Yes I do believe in manifestation and going with the flow and letting fate take its course but I at the same time no longer believe in just sitting back and doing nothing. If I want something in my life I know only I will be able to go get it. So I knew to take action I needed to sort my head out.
I had a client who said to me, how do I organise my work – and this really was the perfectionsim talking. Yes it is nice to have the pretty looking aeasthically pleasing notion page and the tidy desktop but sometimes the reality is you will have messy action. I would have like 2 note books open, with a whiteboard, scribbling down notes. The main you need to work on is just getting into a flow state, no matter how messy it is around you. Don’t be afraid to be writing hundereds of things open at the same time, with 60 tabs open. As long as it is amking sense to you and you feel at the end your vision is becoiming clearer then that is all that matters.
